How To Give Your Man Intense Pleasure

You might have heard the saying that people are creatures of habit. When we find something that we get somewhat good results with, most of us don’t really look much further, but settle and keep doing the same thing over and over again.

For some areas of life this is all good and well as you can’t run around changing everything all the time. But when it comes to sex you definitely do NOT want to get stuck in your habits!

What many women do when they start giving head is that at first they don’t know anything. Then they learn a few tricks and get to know their way around his cock, which is good and necessary. But what happens next is that most women simply STOP there. When they get the basic jist of it, they’re not really interested in MOVING IT FORWARD, which is a total shame!

Are you one of those women? It’s okay, I’m not here to judge. But if you want to keep giving your man intense pleasure, and if you want to know how to give head for real, then you need to keep changing what you do for two reasons:

1. When you change what you do, you change yourself. I.e. You LEARN new things. You learn what works and you learn what DOESN’T work, which in the long term makes you a much better learner.
2. Changing what you do keeps things FRESH, both for YOU and for HIM. Even the greatest sensations will fade over time. It’s a law of nature. You can’t keep doing the same thing to him and expect that it won’t eventually grow tiresome.

If you want more tangible tips on WHAT you can do, you can check out our blog on how to give great head. It’s jam-packed with great tips on how to give good head, how to have PROPER foreplay and how to give your man what he’s REALLY craving.

How To Give Great Head: Lick a Lollipop

Today I wanted to share a great little blowjob technique with you. It’s pretty easy to get the hang of, but it’s going to drive your man insane with pleasure.

This little blowjob tip is something you can sprinkle into your “ordinary routine”, and is not something you want to base your whole shabang on.

Start at the base of his cock. Slowly lick your way up his shaft, almost like you would do if you had a lollipop. Then, when you’re at the top of his shaft, just beneath his head, swallow as much of his cock as you can in one taking.

This will definitely make your man go crazy.

How To Give Good Head: Make The Blowjob More Exciting

I’ve already covered a lot of ground detailing how to give good head in this blog, and today I wanted to continue talking a little bit about how make things more exciting. Even though learning new tricks and techniques automatically fires it up a little, sometimes we need some tips that are a little more specific on how to give more exciting head.

• Give Him Surprise Head. A way to make things a little more exciting is that instead of just giving him head only in combination with intercourse, to randomly start giving him head at times where he doesn’t expect it at all; for instance when he’s working with something important. Trust me; it will be a welcomed surprise!
• Do It at a Fun Place. My blogmate Patrick has already written up a pretty good post on a couple of fun places you can try out. Remember to use your imagination. The more risky it is, the more exciting the session becomes. Use your own judgment of how far you want to go!
• Do Something He’s Not Expecting. Now I know I said technique is not all there is to being exciting, but techniques do play a part. You can try to do something that he’s absolutely not expecting at all. When you’re giving him head and you sense that he’s about to cum, then quickly start massaging his anus. Most of the time it will be totally unexpected and if all goes well it will send him over the top.

Those short tips are great starting points on how to give better and more exciting head. I suggest you try all of them at least one. If for nothing else, than they’ll give you a good laugh and turn your day into an adventure!

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More Good Ideas on When He’s Not Expecting Head and a Special Blowjob Technique you can use.

How to Give Good Head: Enjoy Yourself!

Today we’re going to talk about one of the most important things you need to learn on how to give good head. We’re going to discuss the matter of enjoying yourself while you give head, which is often overseen simply because it’s not really a “technique” but rather about the attitude you bring to the table.

The reason no one really talks about enjoying yourself is that the general view of men is that they’re these stereotype brute people that you can get off as long as you’re touching their penises.

While most guys I know of course enjoy most sensations you give their genitals, most guys are also pretty acutely aware of what the general mood is, and it can be quite important determinant of how pleasant it is for him. If he knows you’re really enjoying yourself, he’ll be able to relax and enjoy himself fully as well.

Another great reason for why enjoying yourself is such an important aspect of giving good head is simply because when you’re enjoying yourself you’re subconsciously doing all of these very attractive things that add to his experience. You’re sub communicating that you want his cock and that in it self is a major turn-on.

Enjoying Yourself While Giving Head
A lot of factors make up why we enjoy some things and not other things, but one of the key components of it is what we focus on.

In any situation, we can either focus on the good or the bad of the situation. If we focus on the good, we’re going to feel better about it, and if we focus on the bad we’ll feel worse about it. It’s the same thing when it comes to fellatio.

If he wants you to give him head and you start thinking “Oh no, not again. God. Maybe I can just do it quickly and get it over with”, that is definitely going to affect your mood, and it will absolutely shine through and HE WILL KNOW! Even if you give him head then and there, the negative thoughts you projected will keep gnawing at his pleasure and he won’t be able to fully relax.

On the other hand, if you start thinking “Oh my god, he’s so hard! I just love feeling his juicy hard cock in my mouth. And just thinking about the fact that I’m in absolute control over his orgasm makes me so turned on!” that will also shine through and your positive attitude will make him even more amped up and horny.

I’m starting to reach the outer-limits of what this article was supposed to cover but as a final conclusion: It’s really all about focus. Different focus will yield different attitudes, and different attitudes will yield different results.

Keep a positive attitude and it’ll be more pleasant. For the both of you…